NYC OCTOBER 20-NOVEMBER 3, 2019
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SUNDAY OCTOBER 20.
You know in theatre if a dress rehearsal is lousy the wisdom goes that opening night will be proportionally wonderful. By that calculation we’re gonna have a great trip.






First, we’ve got an early 6:25  first class flight on Alaska. We’re out in front with our carefully curated luggage dialing Uber. Minutes later Sam is selected from 8 drivers. But he’s 8 minutes away—ok. However the little Uber pictograph shows him unmoving across from the airport. Despite my texted questions and then entreaties as the minutes tick away, he auto replies, he’s looking for us, he’s here, etc. finally a half hour and dangerously later I call a cab which arrived forthwith. Our hearts are pounding and when we reach the ticketing counter 35 minutes in advance we are told we missed the flight, there’s a hard rule that you can’t board after 40 minutes, later to learn that luggage has been delayed on this flight and that is why we really can’t get on. So . . . After much telephonizing our direct flight which would have arrived at 3 pm in Newark will now start at 11:40, necessitating waiting with our luggage a couple of hours before we are able to go through screening and attempt to find the Airspace Lounge. And when will we after our wait in the stopover Seattle arrive at EWR? After midnight!  Call car service. Call the Manhattan Club. Oy.

The Airspace Lounge—a familiar friend—offers some respite—I can get a chicken salad soft food removed from its wrap—yes restrictions—but that long wait. The flight to Seattle—1st Class hardly deserves its name on Alaska—offers an opportunity to mash a chicken burger and imbibe enough booze and narcotics to salve various inflammations.  

MONDAY OCTOBER 21.

Need to catch up on sleep on our comfortable bedroom bed at the Manhattan Club considering the late arrival. Looking for the Brooklyn Diner around the corner. It’s gone. (We’ll discover  a favorite we’ve been inhabiting for lunch for 20 years here in NCY Bit too is closed—is this an alien invasion??)

TOOTSIE.” It’s a really boring show.” This from Bob. I find it “diverting” and Santino Fontana’s performance as Dorothy Michaels, who Dustin Hoffman made famous in the long ago movie of the same name, is truly remarkable, deserving of his Tony.  Singing confidently a capella in drag. But long ago is the operable term because there is a soupson of overcorrecting for its antediluvian incorrectness. (A straight actor getting ahead impersonating a woman.) But it’s a musical after all with music and lyrics—not entirely memorable—dance—unremarkable—and book—only intermittently witty.  Though more feel-good in the second act so this will be a digestible antipasto for our fortnight of theatre in NYC. 

TUESDAY OCTOBER 22.
 AM. Advent of Dorothy, sisters-in-law from Delaware and Nancy youngest niece coming from NJ arriving almost simultaneously—both in the lobby by the time my elevator hits the floor. Much to catch up on both fronts with glasses of Prosecco. Nancy celebrating 6 months as bloodworker on the job, Dorothy on the eve of her 5th. Trip to Israel. Many complaints about people and places ameliorated by news of impending lunch at (soft on the chewing) Italian restaurant Becco on restaurant row. 

Love this place, perennial favorite on restaurant row. $30 price fixe of antipasto-Nancy’s and mine, fishy and octopusy, hummus, OMG, Dot and Bob, Caesar salad. And then as much of three pasta dishes as we could accommodate accompanied by quite nice bottles of Duo Cabernet blend. 

White Wine back at the suite. 

Cab (necessary mode during D and N’s visit). Just give the doorman a fiver and it’s there. Nice front seat conversations with mostly Senagalese Africans—“there’s corruption “. 

FIDDLER ON THE ROOF In Yiddish at the 42nd street theatre complex. It’s a joy! I start 
sobbing at the 1st sound of Mamaloschen, the mother tongue (it was my mother’s tongue after all) Yiddish. And for both my sister in law and me it was to continue throughout this wonderfully directed, by Joel Gray, fairly minimalist interpretation of the musical. Warhorse—adaptation of Sholem  Alechem’s Tevye and his five wayward daughter’s story, their matrimonial defiance of tradition at the time of the pogroms. Brilliant acting, singing, dancing.

Rain and accompanying Nancy to the Port authority for her bus back. (Will eventuate that there’s an accident on the highway and she doesn’t get back home until 2 am. Oh my.)

WEDNESDAY OCTOBER 23.
Yea. Pleasant Fall day sans rain. (Which with some exception looks like our happy lot on this trip.) 

Love the so-called pop-up in the gorgeous Redeye restaurant around the corner, the so-called buffet upstairs at The Club being at 20 bucks inadequate to our needs. Vivacious Olivia (she’s got to be an actor—who isn’t) serves us potent bloody Mary’s. And then the lovely breakfast. Reuel tried his once-a-year coffee. Ok, go with it. 

Saying goodbye to Dear Dorothy and looking forward to the much heralded, controversial Slave Play. 

2: SLAVE PLAY at The Golden. Wow. Talk about intimidating a “fledgling “ playwright. Pushing boundaries—lots of simulated m/s sex onstage and therapy breakdowns. And it’s also funny. They acknowledge when the required playacting anti-bellum slave master (mistress)/slave seems unduly anachronistic. (There’s also—thank gods of live theatre—when a giant wheel barrow rolls off stage into the first row. Haul it up. “Are you all right?”) The  Acting is unvarnishedly fantastic. 3 couples (ok add the therapy lesbian couple—academic psychologists being screwerd for their jargon approach to their theory that the black members of a couple are not understood.) The race conversation continues. it’s terrific theatre. The woman seated next to me covered her eyes during certain terribly watchable ribald scenes.  Yup, terrific theatre. 

Returning (and shaken) back for Eutopia’s Take out-/a treat and home-brewed martinis. Then it’s back to 47th Street and the lovely old Barrymore Theatre for the much heralded (Olivier award) and much-anticipated THE INHERITANCE PART 1. 
Act one. Arresting. Particularly the contrast between the hilarity and satirical jubilance of the young contemporary bucks presided over by E. M. Forster himself in the opening half which melds into a half hour soliloquy by the older guy—recited by a riveting John Benjamin Hickey—directed to a young man about love and loss  in the 80’s and AIDS. 
Third act better be a punch in the gut. 2nd seems to be trying a bit hard to be all things to gay people. Bob finds it all engrossing. I diverting. We are within spitting distance 
       Not sure where it’s going—so gotta see Part 2.  Will the inheritance, that which the struggles of the past (we old) can offer the young, The now be elucidated more coherently? We both agree the play is big and sprawling. But confusing, diffuse. Finally dissonant. The ending—so far—where
The AIDS dead greet the hero in a home where they died (a device famously employed in the film Long Time Companion years ago) is a cue for sentiment—finally manipulative. Not a masterpiece. We’ll see. 

White Wine back at the suite. 

Cab (necessary mode during D and N’s visit). Just give the doorman a fiver and it’s there. Nice front seat conversations with mostly Senagalese Africans—“there’s corruption “. 

  Will the inheritance, that which the struggles of the past (we old) can offer the young, The now be elucidated more coherently? We both agree the play is big and sprawling. But confusing, diffuse. Finally dissonant. The ending—so far—where
The AIDS dead greet the hero in a home where they died (a device famously employed in the film Long Time Companion years ago) is a cue for sentiment—finally manipulative. Not a masterpiece. We’ll see. 

THURSDAY in New York: Steaks at Porterhouse Restaurant at the Time Warner; a stroll through Central Park; drinks with Diversionary’s Matt Morrow at the Algonquin; Inheritance Part 2 at The Barrymore; and supping at our NY home away from home at at the Manhattan Club

FRIDAY OCTOBER 25, DAY 5 IN NYC.
Lunch at our favorite Greek restaurant, Malyvos (last time we were there LA (?) Housewives being filmed at a nearby table). Try the 3 course course sampler, the zucchini fritters appetizer amazing; walk up crowded (what
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Harold Pinter’s Betrayal at the Jacobs—so stylistically a departure from the work we’ve just seen, Slave Play and Inheritance, of the new wave of serious American playwrights. Stately, betrayed relationships in reverse chronology, beautifully acted (ooh Tom Hiddleston), and that (here understated) frightening Pinter ambiguity.

nd the corner where a mediocre obsessively desired cheeseburger is nirvana.
As to THE STORM INSIDE, it’s a lovely piece of theatre and M. L. Parker is a master class in naturalistic acting. She a middle aged professor facing a life threatening disease and her preternaturally smart and talented freshman creative writing student. Dark subject matter—death wish, suicide, loss of young hope—Ay Yai yai but Adam Rapp is a consummate poetic playwright of those themes here beautifully represented.
Imagine passing Harvey Fierstein on the street—no doubt from his matinee performance as Bella Abzug—and then to catch some sushi with martinis before the evening event.
THE GREAT SOCIETY, at Lincoln Center’s terrific 3/4 round Beaumont Theatre. Sorry, we saw part one by the same playwright, All The Way with Brian Cranston, engrossing, but this was diffuse, got Lyndon Johnson’s frustration with Martin Luther King on one hand, the escalating Vietnam War and political pressures on the other, but it was simply not dramatically pertinent in its presentation and Cox star of TV’s Succession, tended to scream through his role. We remember LBJ. He was no LBJ.

SUNDAY, OCTOBER 27.
Rain doesn’t deter us from meeting Stanley (our dear friend when we visit Puerto Vallarta where he lives half of the year) at the Atlantic Grill near Lincoln Center—a neat place where we brunch on a salmon and eggs confection (Bob, resolutely anti-fish, has curried chicken salad). We are presided over by young Louis a refugee from Puerto Rico’s horrific hurricane who aspires to writing musicals. It’s New York after all where anything seems possible—especially if you’re young. (I remember.)
On the way to Stanley’s Lincoln Center apartment (where he’s lived 46 years) we stop off for pastries which Stanley will serve us (with wine) in his beautifully curated apartment.
We have much to chat about and this takes us well into the evening. A lovely time. The rain has subsided as we wend our way downtown back home.

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MONDAY OCTOBER 28
The weather report suggests cold, leather jacket routine (which we follow) but it’s a pleasant day for our plans which begin with a viewing of the only one-week-old opening of the new MOMA’s addition about which there is so much buzz. Good to arrive early as we do so there are fewer crowds (we pre-ordered) and take the 11 0’clock orientation tour of the 2nd floor plus. It’s great to take in the exhibits in the old familiar and the new expansive spaces. The traditional pieces —de Kooning, Motherwell, Warhol’s et al now sit tellingly with newer commentators. The place is beautiful and as user friendly as possible but still confusing for old guys. There’s a wonderful exhibit of Betty Samar’s work as a black woman art pioneer. The attempt now is to group work by eons where there were contradictory impulses not by movements—closer to what happens in art simultaneously. But we’re hungry despite all that art devouring.
The sleek Cafe restaurant serves “small plates”. I have sliders with a glass of Pinot noir and Bob egg scones and Chardonnay. Nice. And it’s a “non-tipping Cafe”. Our waitress is wonderfully sardonic and gets a tenner anyway.
Ah, then there’s the sacrosanct OKLAHOMA musical which we are fated to see this evening at the 3/4 round arena theatre space at Circle In The Square. Ok it’s not an easy pill to swallow, this significantly revisionist take on the musical comedy masterpiece. And finally we’re ambivalent. Friend Stanley said he was appalled when he saw it. “They we’re playing banjos!” I appreciate its boldness and take on the old story. The director fascinatingly emphasizes the longing of his principals for something better in their lives, their frustrations. Are Rodgers and Hammerstein doing whirlygigs of fury in their graves? Don’t know. There’s a gorgeous dance by an androgynous female identified by hope and aspiration at the entre act (subbing for the Demille ballet) who is riveting and further accentuates the theme. It’s dark and almost violent with video closeups and blackouts and bang and . . . Hey throw in contempo westernish angst (?) no bel canto vocals here. Bob and I discuss the merits of the new trend to revisionist bare bones interpretations. Hey, we get chili and corn bread during intermission. They got me at my tummy.
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MONDAY OCTOBER 28
The weather report suggests cold, leather jacket routine (which we follow) but it’s a pleasant day for our plans which begin with a viewing of the only one-week-old opening of the new MOMA’s addition about which there is so much buzz. Good to arrive early as we do so there are fewer crowds (we pre-ordered) and take the 11 0’clock orientation tour of the 2nd floor plus. It’s great to take in the exhibits in the old familiar and the new expansive spaces. The traditional pieces —de Kooning, Motherwell, Warhol’s et al now sit tellingly with newer commentators. The place is beautiful and as user friendly as possible but still confusing for old guys. There’s a wonderful exhibit of Betty Samar’s work as a black woman art pioneer. The attempt now is to group work by eons where there were contradictory impulses not by movements—closer to what happens in art simultaneously. But we’re hungry despite all that art devouring.
The sleek Cafe restaurant serves “small plates”. I have sliders with a glass of Pinot noir and Bob egg scones and Chardonnay. Nice. And it’s a “non-tipping Cafe”. Our waitress is wonderfully sardonic and gets a tenner anyway.
Ah, then there’s the sacrosanct OKLAHOMA musical which we are fated to see this evening at the 3/4 round arena theatre space at Circle In The Square. Ok it’s not an easy pill to swallow, this significantly revisionist take on the musical comedy masterpiece. And finally we’re ambivalent. Friend Stanley said he was appalled when he saw it. “They we’re playing banjos!” I appreciate its boldness and take on the old story. The director fascinatingly emphasizes the longing of his principals for something better in their lives, their frustrations. Are Rodgers and Hammerstein doing whirlygigs of fury in their graves? Don’t know. There’s a gorgeous dance by an androgynous female identified by hope and aspiration at the entre act (subbing for the Demille ballet) who is riveting and further accentuates the theme. It’s dark and almost violent with video closeups and blackouts and bang and . . . Hey throw in contempo westernish angst (?) no bel canto vocals here. Bob and I discuss the merits of the new trend to revisionist bare bones interpretations. Hey, we get chili and corn bread during intermission. They got me at my tummy.

TUESDAY OCTOBER 29.
LUNCH Bouchon at Time Warner
Bouchon Bakery—always pleasant—for lunch. It’s sort of rainy out as we wend our way toward the Time Warner building. Though we get a chance to duck into the adjacent H&M clothiers with all the other teenage guys (to buy happy socks and such) its all about the Frenchy lunch overlooking Columbus Circle. A nice merlot accompanies Bob’s club sandwich and my tomato soup and (what amounts to) a cheese sandwich, “Sandwich au fromage ...
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Rhythmic Cubano music drives me wild at delightful Cuban restaurant on 8th Avenue, a luncheon stop on our way to the next play. Olay!


WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 30
Uptown to a favorite (last year the emphasis was on 3D printing — fascinating). MUSEUM OF DESIGN. Housed in the old Huntington Hartley building on Columbus Circle. This year the focus is on fashion designers, in particular Ana Sui who flourished in the 60’s. Love the new artist winners’ work.
Cuban RestUrant. A find! Accompanied by rhythmic Cubans dance music we have the $15.95 pri fixe . Appetizer: Bob’s chock full Sopa, Reuel a stuffed baked potato wi...
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At Guantanamo’s Cuban Restaurant. You can see Wednesday, October 30, R &B in NYC continued below.








THURSDAY, OCTOBER 31.(Ha that’s Halloween!)
After cabbing it up to the Met for $20 there’s a 35 minute wait in lines to enter, deposit our cloaks and then pay the exorbitant fee (even for seniors) to enter.
Bob who declares he’ll never come back again (yeah sure) declares however that he’s grateful the American robber barons pillaged all the wondrous antiquities from other countries.
Since we are clearly swells, we must avoid what used to be our favorite dining room at the Met (once the great court was removed) the Petrie facing the park. But it is now (gasp) self-service. So we must now repair to the 4th floor members dining room overlooking the trees of Central Park though the windows are somewhat fogged up on this rainy day. And as the rain floats down the angled windows it’s actually lovely. Good choice. Very refined. We order “quartinos” of wine—cab for me, chard for Bob, to accompany my burger (prole boy) and Bob’s chicken breast (nicely spiced).
We note that there’s no art on the tasteful walls. They get enough art in the museum I say. “It’s a palette cleanser” says Bob. A happy time.



Love Thomas Hart Benton’s America Today murals. And the wonders in the many galleries we visit, the new including the Knights exhibit and the Abstracts and the familiar such as the African and Egyptian galleries and the American Wing’s treasures.
Shop. Magnets. A gorgeous Frank Leger cubist watch (which doesn’t work when we get back home!) Get your coats. Call the Uber which comes in the promised 1 minute and get your $15 AMEX credit for the month. Yea.










(Still Thursday October 31.)
Cocktail hour at the MC (Manhattan Club) exec suite on the 16th floor—ours. And learning evermore about the impeachment investigation being ratified by the Dems in the House—lord May it go forward in health. L,Chaim!
8 pm. THE ROSE TATOO. At the American Airlines Theatre a bit of a walk down to 42nd Street. This one stars “academy award winner” Marissa Tomei who has been widely praised for her performance. We remember Anna Magnani opposite Burt La...
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IT’S FRIDAY NOVEMBER 1.
I say it’s Halloween day. Bob corrects, “Its Really All Saints Day.” Whatever.
We brave the blustery day—albeit Sunny. Yea. And “I’m not discontent.” As I settle into a window glorious view of um Trump Tower into our fave Porterhouse. We’ll have the 3 course special of course—at first the only customers. I give Bob the glorious view. Ok that person’s tower intervenes.
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SATURDAY NOVEMBER 2.
We brave the streets (and crowds) to walk from 56th Street to 28th Street. It’s meet Stanley at high noon at FIT (where we were all adjuncts back in the day [we English composition] but Stanley stayed on as a revered adjunct professor of fashion retailing)
Oodles of conversation in the lobby of FIT’s museum before we enter the exhibition of Paris couture, beautiful clothes from FIT’s copious collections. From corseted 18th century gowns to their counterparts in the 20th century. Stanley and I ooh and ahh over the detailing, the cut and Stanley regales us with his expert narrative. Imagine, they cut it on the bias then! We simultaneously identify the most beautiful dress in the exhibit—a sleek red number—and I feel empowered. Two ladies say they overheard the conversation and can we comment. I introduce Professor Kleinman to them and he explains the blandishments of a certain gorgeous creation.
Nice little restaurant nearby Stanley has chosen for us. There’s a $15.95 brunch that includes a drink—damned nice Bloody Mary—a soup—excellent pasta soup and excellent main—pasta and meat sauce for Stan and me (I had my bowl of microwaved eggs earlier) and a Benedict (nice hollandaise) for Bob. We say goodbye to Stanley until July when we’ll see him and Ruben in Puerto Vallarta (and make plans to visit with them Guadalajara and San Miguel Alente). Since we’re around the corner from our old apartments on 21st Street, we make that pilgrimage. We see and have no regrets that we abandoned our old homes for San Diego more than 35 years ago.
A cab is required instead of the uphill climb back so we can rest before our evening show, SCOTLAND PA at the Laura Pells Theatre (another Roundabout production) on 46th.
After Act 1 I say it’s innocuous this Macbeth update (very loosely) that takes place in a McDonald’s predecessor in that eponymous Pennsylvania town. Mac is spurred on by 3 hippies (witches—voices in his head) and his ambitions wife to move on from their life of penury and squalor to perform heinous deeds in order to own and transform the McBeth’s (formerly Duncan’s) where they work. It will end badly for them as we know.
Bob is less enchanted than I but agrees that the musical takes more life in the 2nd Act. Some of the actors could have been more energetic and have sold their songs with more panache but all in all it’s fun; give it a respectable and amusing “B”.















SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 3. GOING HOME. NYC TO SAN DIEGO.
INTREPID TOURISTS, THE TALLY:
15 Shows, 4 Museums, 8 “Fine Dining” Restaurants, Innumerable strolls
THEATRE: (and their “grades”)
Plays—
Slave Play A-
Inheritance Part 1 A-
Inheritance Part 2 A
Betrayal B+
The Sound Inside A-
Great Society B
Linda Vista B+|A-
Height of the Storm B/B+
The Rose Tattoo B/B+
Musicals—
Tootsie A-
Fiddler On the Roof (Yiddish) A/A-
Oklahoma B+
Dear Evan Hanson B+
Beetlejuice A-
Scotland, PA B
Museums—
MOMA (Museum of Modern Art)
MOD (Museum of Design)
MET (Metropolitan Museum of Art)
The Museum at FIT (Fashion Institute of
Technology)
Fine Dining—
Red Eye Grill (3 Times)
Porterhouse (2 Times)
Malyvos
MOMA Dining room
MET Patrons Dining room
Restivo
Strolls—
From Columbus Circle, Central Park to
Chelsea downtown
















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SUNDAY NOVEMBER 3.THE OUTTA HERE.
Packing morning. The maid gets lots of leftovers (big eyes at the grocery) but pack that Prosecco. Weight restriction we count on being lax at the 1st class counter.
Store the bags while we venture 100 steps to the beautifully accoutred Redeye Grill where a simple farmers breakfast knocks a couple of guys back a Franklin. ($100) But included in the tariff we get to watch parents trying to be civilized while wrangling their beast children. Take pleasure where you can.
Cab $102–probably same as a car service but simpler with doorman assistance. As scheduled we’re at Newark Airport by two, in our pay $120 (!) American Airlines lounge by 2:30 (Help! Alaska Airlines offers NO complimentary 1st class lounge, not even a partner lounge here and given a huge security line—we’ll fly back R/T JFK as before and select another airline thank you.) But it’s a long wait and there’s plenty of booze so . . . Better than being . . . Gasp . . . Poor? 
Aboard. A double vodka on ice thank you. Get this party going not to mention the plane. Bob is creeped out—Why? His ineffable name was uttered correctly twice by attendants.
The entertainment devices is almost beyond the scope of an ordinary flying mortal. (Bob is not having a happy time with his device—being super mortal.) But Leon our assistant refreshes our drinks so maybe unnecessary quibbles. As to the dinner. Steak thingy. Pretty damn good—especially the unnamed white and green veggies. (Feeling adventurous — perhaps by necessity.) Bob hates, yes hates, the okra. . . . I’m in a good plChelsea downtown

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